In preparation for the upcoming arrival of Disney on Ice at the Patriot Center October 17-21 The Feld Group asked local bloggers to think about their “Best and Bravest” moments in honor of Princess Merida making her skating debut.
I love the new Princesses. Tiana from The Princess and the Frog works her booty off to open her own business, Rapunzel from Tangled knocks boys over the head with a frying pan, and Merida from Brave fights to be in control of her own destiny. These are not the type of girls that take a nap and wait for Prince Charming.
Before my daughter was born, I prayed that she would be strong and self-sufficient (just like the new princesses), even though I hoped she’d be a girly-girl, too. God definitely granted my wish granted on that one. My four year old is the one in pink sparkles attacking the tackling dummy when it’s not being used at football practice. She’s feisty and fiery and is brave about a number of things in her everyday life- from trying new foods to leaping after her brothers with the reckless abandon of a kid who doesn’t realize that she’s a foot and a half shorter and thirty pounds lighter than her brothers.
|This is my girl. She has to wear tennis shoes with fancy dresses so she can run fast.|
But, in all honesty, we haven’t had that much that she’s had to be really and truly brave about. We’ve been incredibly blessed with a lack of major medical issues, natural disasters, or death in our family. Probably the hardest thing she’s had to deal with has been being a civilian kid in a highly military area. Letting go of your friends is never easy, even when you’re tiny.
That made me think, though, that when it comes to real-life bravery, there’s nobody I know that does it better than military spouses and kids. When our BFFs had to leave this past summer, I pitched a fit. My daughter still cries when we pass the Quantico exit on 95 south wanting to know when she gets to see her friend Mia. We were not, and are not, the epitome of bravery. However, as a lifer here in Woodbridge, I’ve had my fair share of “military brat” friends, and while I know they don’t want to leave, they always seem to “buck up and go” with a level of Bravery that rivals even the pluckiest of the new princesses.
|Best Buds enjoying cupcakes tailgate-style|
Mia, and other military kids like her, gets handed orders, just like their parents. They didn’t sign up for military life, but they head out to new houses, new friends, new schools, and even new languages. Military kids send their daddies and mommies off with a kiss to scary places that most of us only hear about on the news. They deal with mommies and daddies who were left behind to manage a family alone and are sometimes just a little bit on edge.
Mia, and all the military kids in our lives, are so awesome in their continued bravery. Just like Merida, they explore new places with gusto, head out on new adventures with a gleam in their eye, and while they might be frightened initially, they always seem to succeed in making the best of any situation they land in. In my book, they’re definitely the Best and Bravest, just like Merida.